Can Someone please explain why it’s so hard to find a decent length dress now a days? I mean even short people are worried for their ass cheeks. Like really?! Did they run out of fabric and not tell anybody? I feel like this is the never-ending April Fools Joke. All I’m asking for is something above the knee not above the thigh SHEESH!… Now don’t get me wrong I love Forever21 they are always there for me when I need them, but the dresses UGH! Sometimes I have to check the tag to make sure I’m not shopping at the Children’s Place.

Dear Seamstresses,

Please.. Please… Please make dresses a longer length.. It’s not going to look less fashionable, I swear! Your items will still sell. There’s a thin line between ” Oh that’s a nice dress” And “What the hell?”……. Help a Sista out!

Sincerely Concerned, ThePalmBeachNewYorker

There is only one song I can think of this late at night.. Enjoy ♥

Allman Brothers - Ramblin' Man by Tex581

♦ Necklace Forever21 ♦ Top Thrifted ♦ Pants Forever21 ♦ Shoes Nine West ♦ Purse H&M ♦

I have this song on repeat. I’m extremely picky when it comes to jazz and this song gets my approval…

Have a listen why don’t ya… and I leave you.

Esperanza Spalding - I Know You Know by fernandohleme

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So, I don’t get how you pay so much money for a cell phone and when it magically stops working your provider doesn’t have your back. Now some providers are better than others.. this we know, but my phone was not cheap and normally when you pay more for something its supposed to be better quality. Now of course people have been trying to get over since cave men times. Finding a cheap way to get something made and make a fortune when you sell it to a customer is nothing new. I’m feeling skeptical… maybe those kiddie cell phones are better quality than the adult phones. Maybe I just need to give up on new technology buy myself a steno pad instead of an iPad. Maybe I need to heat up my food by camp fire instead of miro-waving since I can never get my dinner warm on the first try anyway and maybe instead of a new cell phone I need to get a brand new can and string and be okay with the fact that if my can falls in water I can just rinse it out and not pay $200 for a new one..

These are just ideas that could possibly be in the making…..

AHH SCREW IT, I’m switching to Verizon.

Check out this cover… “Telephone”- Lady GaGa

Telephone by Finnbkk

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I’m still soooooo excited. Cepeda and I finally got to see In The Heights the musical. Thank goodness. I’ve been trying to see this play since high school, but Due to the BROKE.AS.HELL epidemic that affects most young adults I wasn’t able to attend. It was amazing. We attended the Adrianne Arsht Center in downtown Miami where the play was held. AH-MAY-ZING. I’m telling you guys, it was really cool. The characters you can relate to. The music was tight. It’s a play that should be supported for sure. After the play it was time for food. We didn’t have time to eat before hand so after the play we had to hit up Nexxt one of our favorite restaurants on South Beach . If you’re ever looking for a variety of spicy food, you should check out their menu… good stuff.

On behalf of In The Heights I give you one of my favorite covers.. have a listen

Clocks – Coldplay

02. Clocks Relojes - RDM feat. Lele & Guests Star by ponlatorta.com

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side… the grass some people refer to is just a dirt square with a leaf that flew from someone else’s yard but you can’t see that cause your on the other side. I find that sometimes we lose track of what we have because we are worried about what others are given. Yes “she” may be driving a BMW but she also has to take care of a beard looking unibrow that continuously grows and bad addittude. You just don’t know and there’s no point in trying to find out. Growing up, there would be times when I would compare myself to others, but there was never a time where I felt I came up short or unlucky. From wearing my sister’s hand me downs to eating left overs for the majority of the week since wasting food was not an option… I got clothes to put on my bones and food in my stomach, that was all I needed. Sometimes we have to live life with blinders on and only focus on what we want. There will always be things popping up in life to distract us but that’s simply the way it goes. There will always be days that are not so great, there will always be that fool who takes your parking spot and there will always be that cart with the wobbly wheel at the grocery store. Once we come to terms with that nothing can stop us…… Now get to work (cracks whip)…. I can be so dramatic hahaha

“When your Smiling”- Louis Prima

Louis Prima - When You're Smiling by marianaush

I often hear complaints about men “changing” in relationships. Some folks telling these stories maybe teary eyed.. others thoroughly aggravated but most express at least a speck of confusion. What I gain from these conversations is the fact that the men don’t Change they become real. Once its time to end the overly sweet crap months into the relationship, they reveal who they really are and keeping fingers crossed that they still have a chance with you. Maybe it’s not the guy, maybe its your view of what you want from that guy…. any guy. As women we were given the impression that this dumb list of desires we brew since play-dates and Barbies would actually become a reality.

The funny thing is that we ALL know this is not true right?  many people have revealed the secret that this is unrealistic, so it’s fair to say that most of us have gotten the memo. The problem is we just HEAR the words BUT STILL LIVE as if we are the next star of a Disney princess movie. It’s not fair to the Men out there. If you have a list. Throw it away. Erase it from your mind… keep the lists for the grocery store. Don’t make Love feel like just another number on your list. I’m sure if anyone asked you to state all the things you don’t like about your mate your complaints will be flowing like water from a faucet. THAT’S NOT THE WAY TO DO IT, TRUST ME! Give the guy a chance and Focus on the things you DO like and ACT on what you DO like him doing. Compliment him, treat him for doing those things  and you will see things turn around.  Men like to be appreciated. Show them that you notice these things. This also means stepping out of your comfort zone… Keep it positive and you’ll do fine♥

HAVE NO FEAR REALITY IS HERE (quote inspired by Under Dog)

“Words Of Love”-The Mamas And Papas